Dear Andie,

What do I do if I get rejected over and over?

Dear Rejected,

When it comes to a situation like this, what’s most important is to focus on your own self-confidence. Rejection can be hard, but at some point you need to realize that finding worth in yourself is probably more important than someone else’s approval. 

If this situation is about one specific person and your interest is not being returned, it’s okay to take a step back and move on. In this case, redirecting your energy onto someone fresh who is genuinely receptive and worthy of your attention may be the best course of action. Or instead you can use this time to focus more on self-development.